Join in and share more of his flaws they may be unaware of

Say nothing because you want them to like you

Change the subject because you don’t know what to say

Defend him and politely ask them to stop the conversation

Walk away because you hate conflict

Check your social media, sometimes losing track of time

Watch or stream your favorite show or soap opera

Enjoy a time out or lengthy phone call with girlfriends

Catch up on tidying the house and other things that make your house feel like a home

Ask your husband what he would like to do or how you can help

Pray for him that God will help him overcome it

Constantly bring up all the things he does wrong every chance you get

Talk about his failures behind his back with family and/or friends

Look for a time to share your concern and create a space in your schedules to talk through the situation calmly

Roll your eyes when he makes a mistake and give him the silent treatment and withhold sex

Bring it up for discussion then tell your husband what the decision should be

Pray about it and then approach your husband for discussion but allow him to make the final decision.

Go with your gut without consulting your spouse and do what you think is best

Make a pros and cons list together to identify the best choice

Call your parents for their advice and then guilt your husband with what they said

Always initiate the conversation beginning with why it is his fault

Drop hints in hopes your husband can figure it out that you’re bothered about something

Text him the details so you don’t have to talk face to face

Set aside a date night for a time of discussion, share the details of what you sense, get his opinion, and listen with an open mind for his advice

Bring it up in front of your children in hopes that it will not be a big deal

Intentionally cross his path in hopes he’ll strike up a conversation

Immediately call your husband and tell him you love him

Look away, check your emotions, and text your husband telling him something you love about him

Do a mental comparison between him and your husband to see which one seems the better man

Go back to the same location again the next day/week in hopes to see the stranger again

Comment on how annoying his behavior is

Remind him that your dad would never do that

Reflect on the things you love about him, remembering how blessed you are that you’re married

Ignore it and move on, while thinking about how unattractive he is

Gently bring it up and then let it go

Do nothing; you don’t really care if there’s romance because there’s too much water under the bridge

Get mad without discussing your feelings, expecting your husband to figure it out by reading your mind

Plan a special romantic evening to reignite the fire and develop a plan together to grow your love life

Immerse yourself in things that stir the romance for you that exclude your spouse like watching the Bachelorette or reading a romance novel

Put specific dates on the calendar to reconnect on a regular basis

Both make your decisions separately because what’s yours is yours and what’s his is his

Be generous and give to causes you believe in

Discuss large purchases with your husband and decide together if you should purchase or not

Live by a budget you developed together and work together to pay off debts

Go shopping and hide what you spend because you think living by a budget is too restrictive

Don’t really care about religion because it’s never meant that much to you anyway and you don’t see its importance in marriage

Lead your family in all spiritual matters since your husband isn't going to do it

Stay close in own personal walk with God and pray for your husband daily

Gently encourage your husband to grow stronger in his faith.

Share regularly what God is telling you.